I think "disdain" is perfectly apt for a lot of people.
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I think "disdain" is perfectly apt for a lot of people.
Who hates poor people?
I certainly don't.
I've tried to explain this several times. I'll try again.
In this area, there are three types of people……
People that actually need help. No problem helping them or extending time, assets , money etc. I do it all the time.
People that want help. Not so sympathetic here.These people need to prove they are making some kind of effort. Many do and eventually improve themselves. Not all
People that expect help. Totally unsympathetic here. Many able bodied people sit around, fill out forms, know all the angles, the ins and outs and get all kinds of help they wouldn't really need if they would put forth some sort of effort. They will be like this for a good portion of their lives…and complain all the way. There are more of these than you realize (or would readily admit to). I could not care what happens to them.
Don't know.
You tell me.
I do know, judging by what I have seen, that many, many of what we consider indigent keep making bad decisions that perpetuates the problem. Many perpetuate it to the point of being hopeless. Too many children (avoidable), drug abuse (personal choice), lack of education (avoidable, requires a certain amount of effort.) Crime (personal choice, poor decision)
I always come back to the process of avoiding poverty……
Graduate High School
Get a Job
Get Married
Have Children
Stay with your family.
Many believe that if youy do this in this sequence that your chances of becoming impoverished is reduced drastically
I agree with this formula and it is not that hard.
It's interesting because we have this idea that college is so overpriced it's not worth it financially and now everyone has turned against it and said you shouldn't go, but all data still points to college graduates earning far more than high school graduates. What's most interesting is a huge predicator on whether your poor or not is your parents education level:
http://www.nccp.org/publications/pub_786.html
So perhaps he should have added a step in there of "get educated" (though that doesn't have to mean college, it means learn a trade or skill).
The reason he, someone who does not live in NYC, cares about this issue is because he thinks making it free will just bring "piss, ****, gangs, and panhandlers". That's the entirety of his politics on this issue. He's not even pretending to care about the finances. He just thinks if you make things free all the gross poors will infest the place. There's no reason for him to care, except for his disdain of poor people.
You're right.
This plan……
Graduate High School
Get a Job
Get Married
Have Children
Stay with your family.
Is very complex. How can anyone possible figure it out?
Do you have "L" and "R" written on the inside of your shoes??? Maybe velcro instead of laces on your AJs?.
No plan works 100% for everyone. I'm sure there are Ivy League grads that can't get a job or are on the dole. But it has been fairly well proven that if you……
Graduate High School
Get a Job
Get Married
Have Children
Stay with your family.
…then your chances of avoiding poverty are greatly reduced.
Maybe it would help if we can get the climate change "experts" to agree with that formula. Anyone have Jane's phone number???
Here's what you don't get………
Following that simple (or complex, depending on who you are) formula isn't what reduces your chance of poverty. It increases you chance of being a responsible person.
Being a responsible person reduces your chance of living in poverty.
Think it through a little.
Bolded…never said otherwise.
Look…that entire concept…
Graduate High School
Get a Job
Get Married
Have Children
Stay with your family.
…deals with personal planning, sensible judgement, accepting responsibility etc.
All qualities that will greatly help one to avoid poverty.
I have 2 kids. All I could afford. I would like to have had more. I see people all the time with numerous kids they can't afford. Then we get into===>SNAP, Food Stamps, Public Assistance, Unemployment, Housing Assistance etc.
What is it that I get that they don't? As many here could attest … I'm not all that bright.
And before you start on how kids sometimes just happen, come up with a medical condition that is easier to avoid than pregnancy.
I don't know about the kids part, but statistically I'm pretty sure Sluggo's right and there is a correlation between graduating High School, getting a job and getting married making you less likely to stay in poverty.
Doing the responsible thing doesn't make you responsible... that's a trait you are coming to the situation with. Do you know anyone who got married simply because it was the "responsible thing to do?" You think that is a marriage that will last?
You had some common sense. But I don't think you understood why. Education = JOB. Job = Money. Marriage = financial stability in case you lose your job (2 incomes).