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  1. #1
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    Addicted to sex... is this actually a problem?

    I am addicted... I have a GF and well yea... On top of forever I have always not only wanted sex alot but I would also masturbate considerably... I never had any issue with certain GFs but have broken up with other GFs if they weren't as active... I never thought it was a problem until my friends GF and my good friend got into an argument and I found out my good buddys gf was annoyed with having Sex 3 times a week and annoyed with him that he still masturbates.... Now the reason why I feel like I might have a problem because there were times when I would have sex with ex gfs often but still jerk it upwards of 2-3 times a day... I am fairly certain I have Gigs of porn on my computer..... At one point I downloaded so much porn I got a pulsating **** virus on my screen... my mouse pointer became a **** and little cocks spread all around and were blowing their loads everytime i moved my mouse...

    Anywho long story short I take care of my family.... I work a ton and I am going back to school for my full degree in accounting and tech and I do everything in my power to make my GF feel loved and she doesn't have an issue with how often I need to unload... I dont just sit around and jerk it and live off of the system or other people... It doesn't hurt my life in any way shape or form but does/is that still considered a problem? I have never cheated either... I always give everything into my relationships.. I just love porn and sex... Should I be concerned? Just figured this would be an interesting topic because I honestly dont think its a problem but can see the other side of the argument.


    Sidenote---- No weird porn either.... Well not extremely weird.... Russians/Busty/Pawn shop/MONEY talks type stuff.. but nothing like animals and **** like that... I have standards.

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    You were hard wired by some creator to desire sex. At some point it can become self destructive (cheating, etc).

    15 tears ago I had a porn addiction for about a year and i started downloading porn pics (before video) using my company's ISP. I even wacked off in my office (at night, after hours). So stupid. I could have been fired but they gave me a 2nd chance. I mostly dont like porn anymore. It's sterile, distant, impersonal -- at least since Crissy Moran found God. She's some old school *****.

    My problem now is that my wife wants sex twice/day, 7 days a week. I can't keep up!
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    I used to suffer from desiring an unhealthy amount of sex/porn and felt like it messed with my head too much so I gave up porn and have been much happier since then. Its up to you though. If you don't feel it messes with your relationship then go for it. I definitely felt like it was holding my back though especially with how hard it was to give up
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    I think all men are addicted to sex. weather it is a problem depends on how manage it
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    as someone who is currently in treatment for addiction, I can tell you, absolutely you can be addicted to sex. Addiction is simply understanding that you are powerless over whatever it is you are addicted to. You need it to exist.

    So yes, you may be addicted to sex. If you actually worry about it, seek a professional to give you an assessment.

    If you want the ultimate, you've got to be willing to pay the ultimate price. It's not tragic to die doing what you love.

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    If the word addicted is crossing your mind, then it's probably a problem. But if you and your lady are happy with it, then that's what matters
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    It can be a problem. I had a borderline addiction to porn at one point. It caused relationship problems repeatedly and eventually I just decided that I had to make a change or it was gonna ruin my marriage.


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    Addiction lol. That's what you say when you get caught cheating.

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    Porn addiction can cause all sorts of problems, including and potentially leading to impotence. It really is in your best interest to kick it. If you feel you need help doing so, you should seek it.

    In two of my relationships we were having sex far more than we should've been. Sex is absolutely healthy, but like anything else it should be done with moderation in mind. We were having sex 3 and 4 times in a day, often when neither of us really wanted to all that badly, we were just bored or couldn't suppress the urge to do it. It had become a habit.

    Your body needs to recover. While you're young you may not experience any problems, but as you get older the sex ringer that you put your body through will begin to show the damage done.

    I really do advise that you give up porn. It's so damaging and you may not even realize the effect that it's had on your mind and body. As for sex, remember that all things should be done in moderation. You wouldn't have 3-5 hard leg sessions at the gym every day, your body just couldn't sustain that, and it won't sustain that kind of sex life forever either before the damage of overuse starts to show.

    I believe you came here because you feel that you have a problem. Thankfully, it isn't a problem that can't be fixed. Kick the porn, bud. And take care of your body and it will take care of you for the long haul.

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    Is your desire for sex or for porn? That's a big difference. If you just constantly want sex with random women, welcome to the club. It doesn't really go away. That's what your body is programed to do, sperm is produced to leave the body and we need an outlet.
    Do you jerk it without porn?

    I'm just curious , Have you watched porn with your girl? It might help the issue.




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    Friend of mine seemed to be addicted to just jerking off. His gf told me that he'd rub one off even after having sex. Sometimes he'd prefer to just jack off than to hit it or even get head from her. And if you're wondering if maybe it's the girl that is the problem, she's not, i can assure that. Mofo really really just have the urge to rub one off each day.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mikekhelxD View Post
    Friend of mine seemed to be addicted to just jerking off. His gf told me that he'd rub one off even after having sex. Sometimes he'd prefer to just jack off than to hit it or even get head from her. And if you're wondering if maybe it's the girl that is the problem, she's not, i can assure that. Mofo really really just have the urge to rub one off each day.
    It's just easier, you don't have to talk or be affectionate afterwards and you can think about whatever you want




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    This thread reminds of Don Jon.

    my mouse pointer became a **** and little cocks spread all around and were blowing their loads everytime i moved my mouse...
    I thought that was hilarious.

    On a serious note though, one can absolutely get addicted to sex.

    If you feel it interrupts with other things in your life and you can't focus without getting off, maybe that's when you seek help. But from what you said, it doesn't seem like it does any of those things. You probably just have a very high sex drive.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rush View Post
    This thread reminds of Don Jon.



    I thought that was hilarious.

    On a serious note though, one can absolutely get addicted to sex.

    If you feel it interrupts with other things in your life and you can't focus without getting off,
    maybe that's when you seek help. But from what you said, it doesn't seem like it does any of those things. You probably just have a very high sex drive.
    This doesn't happen to everyone? If i didn't "need" sex i'd almost never hang out with women.
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    Considering you used to crank it out so much wearing a condom and actually washed said condom often enough without disgust in your kitchen sink for your mom to find it, I say you got a problem.

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