being dumped

[chi-townlove1]

Girlfriend of a year and half broke up with me yesterday. 20 years old and were about to move in together. Then she comes out of nowhere to claim she has fallen out of love with me. I know I have to accept it. But How to deal with it I have no idea. Just want to pick everything up and leave. What do you guys suggest?

Sincerely,
Heart broken individual!

[LeperMessiah]

Drugs. Lots and lots and lots of Drugs.

[1-800-STFU]

Better now than a year from now when you're living with her and get really attached.

[FlakeyFool]

Become gay

[Pierzynski4Prez]

Just do things to keep your mind off her. Nothing will help you move on but time. Go hang out with your buddies.

[LeperMessiah]

you met her when you were what 18-19 years old? how you were then compared to the age of 21 are 2 completely different people. I had to leave my ex because of that.

[MrfadeawayJB]

I guess i'll give you some real advice lol..


First of all, sorry to hear that man, it sucks. If you really care about her and hope to salvage the relationship, i wouldnt do anything crazy right now like **** the first girl you see. I would take my few weeks to try and make sense of things, reflect on the relationship. I would try to do productive outlets like exercise and new hobbies (avoid potential bad habits). Once you feel comfortable try and get back out into the dating game. During your few weeks of doing something good for yourself you should have regained confidence and feel good about yourself.

Worst-case scenario: You eventually get over her and then meet some other girls

Best-Case scenario (if you want to get back with her): You make improvements in your life, go out with some other girls, she witnesses this and wants to get back with you. (then you have all the power and can choose if YOU WANT HER BACK!)


Best of luck bro

[UKBronco58]

Spend the deposit on the place you were gonna get on hookers and liquor.

[Ray_R]

I guess i'll give you some real advice lol..


First of all, sorry to hear that man, it sucks. If you really care about her and hope to salvage the relationship, i wouldnt do anything crazy right now like **** the first girl you see. I would take my few weeks to try and make sense of things, reflect on the relationship. I would try to do productive outlets like exercise and new hobbies (avoid potential bad habits). Once you feel comfortable try and get back out into the dating game. During your few weeks of doing something good for yourself you should have regained confidence and feel good about yourself.

Worst-case scenario: You eventually get over her and then meet some other girls

Best-Case scenario (if you want to get back with her): You make improvements in your life, go out with some other girls, she witnesses this and wants to get back with you. (then you have all the power and can choose if YOU WANT HER BACK!)


Best of luck bro

stopped reading after that

[MrfadeawayJB]

stopped reading after that

better than telling him to turn gay


I'm looking at you flakey

[benzni]

put horse **** in her car

[1-800-STFU]

Slash her tires

[CityofTreez]

You're a ****ing mess bud...

"What to do when you've basically given up on life"

"Being dumped"


Oh I got dumped, but my pity party is more important!

[Driven]

You're clearly just not good enough. You have to set your sights lower. Forget the great times you had, because you will never be able to match those again. If you were more attractive, she probably would have put up with how average you are, but unfortunately you just dont have that sex appeal.

Aim for something 30 pounds heavier.

[.Sean.]

Consider it a blessing. You're crazy moving in with a girlfriend at 20 IMO

Go live your life