Both stork and Hillbilly are right,
Men are a total mess.
they never stop postureing, they never stop testing each other, they never stop looking for trouble.
Woman cannot stop seeking attention of some sort,and do a hole lot more vindictive and hurtful things to each other and to the men in thier lives.
Ive often found the dynamic stork is bringing up pathetic,and I will not single people out but some have given an inordinate amount of attention to the two ladies from the minute they showed up.If that is upsetting to hear...whateves, its the truth.
But as hillbilly points out I spent 12 years surrounded by nothin but men in the military and they have no need of provocation to behave childishly , stupidly, or agressively.
Its simply the sexual dynamic,men and woman want to feel they are the most viable partner in a social group, men do it through agression towards other males and Friendliness towards females, females attempt to be friendly with a large group of males even when they know without a doubt that most men are only interested in fantasizing about adding them to their stable.
You all should just be glad that you fit into the expected mold of normal behaviour, when you dont is when you really have problems!