NN, I'm an English teacher and not a biologist, so I'm a bit afield here. But if my understanding is correct, your misunderstanding may be rooted in this quote of yours:
"I'm assuming the simplest form of life must've been dna"
IIRC, the most well accepted theory is that life actually was in RNA form in earlier stages, and then later developed into DNA. I'm not even sure if this addresses your specific complaint, but my impression is that it's probably worth noting.
It's also probably worth noting
Project Steve. The consensus among scientists with relevant expertise is simply overwhelming. If we can accepts "germs" as a fact, and "gravity" as a fact, and "relativity" as a fact, then we should MORE readily accept "evolution" as a fact because it is - in fact - (if my understanding is correct) a more well-substantiated and well-evidenced scientific theory than the former three.