You're 100% right.
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hes stated hes trying to do so and that alone shows growth in him as a person he will continue to grow and a child will be a blessing for him and probably will change his life as most parents told me that there life changed when they saw the birth of there child
tbh this could be the best thing that happened for MF4E it could give him a renewed look on life and a sense of urgency to get the GED hes been talking about and the job he wants. and just because hes working minimum wage now doesnt mean he will continue to have a minimum wage job or cant support his kid. its harder to support on minimum wage but it isnt impossible especially with government benefits and a little slinging on the side
i have faith in MF4E to be a great dad he will probably play with his kid a lot and be there and im sure it will help turn his life around as he has continued to try to do and will eventually do
well that shows your ignorance about this subject and about living a life in poverty
you can be a great parent and your parents sling drugs, you can still be there for your kid and do everything for your kid but at the same time have a bad habit and get high
your just ignorant to about poverty at this point i wouldnt expect you to understand because your ignorant about the subject if you want to have a real conversation about this than pm me and i will enlighten you because discussing it here will only make trolls come out
So many things I want to say... but... just... can't...
Yup I'm ignorant about poverty, and how to raise kids. I mean obviously since I don't sling crack and get high in front of my kids I'd be a horrible horrible father. It's amazing there isn't a whole section of books on the subject how to be a crackhead and raise a child. They can call it from crackbaby to havard the normal non ignorant way to raise a child.
wow so your going to the other extreme where i never went or even mentioned
i didnt know you had to sling crack and get high to be a good parent. my point is it doesnt make you a bad one and if you dont know how some things work and dont want to get educated on how the real life works especially the poverty life then talk to me
you know your lost when you go to the exact other extreme just to make a bad point
Are there people out there who sell drugs and a good parent? Yea i'm sure there are? Is it probable? Hell no. Yea having the ever risk of going to jail and the high violence in the drug game does not lead to good households. You understand that when you sell drugs and get arrested or raided you get your kids taken from you right? I mean you do understand how this stuff works right?
Will there be punch and pie?
In this thread: The massacre of the English language.
MF4E, for the sake of my tax dollars, please set up an adoption with a family who can take care of the child.
I don't know what to say except Congrats, I guess. :shrug:
just because something isnt probable doesnt mean its impossible
and if your a drug dealer you dont need to tell me the risks i know this risks being a former one....every drug dealer knows the risks involved with dealing drugs we dont need anyone to tell us
if we sell drugs its because the positives out weight the negatives and we will take the chance of going to jail to put food on the table and to keep the light on in the house and to pay rent because sometimes the wages are not enough to keep up with society
i know how this stuff works but it seems like you may not